For the singles
Are you single and ready to make the
most out of it? Discover how to enjoy being
your own soulmate, take time to
heal, reflect & re-align.
And who knows what new doors might
open along the way?
For people who want to use their single years intentionally
and move on more consciously.
Being single isn't a bad omen.
Being single doesn't mean you're not valued.... it can mean you may have boundaries.
Being single doesn't mean you're lonely... you can use your time to become the best version of yourself. Being single isn't a weakness. It can be a sign of strength.
Most importantly... You can develop aspects of yourself you most likely didn't know.
Heal your past. Release your old patterns. Upgrade your identity. Become the love you seek.
Sometimes love may find you later in life
Sometimes love may find us later in life
We may wonder why love hasn’t arrived yet. It can feel frustrating. The reasons may vary and be very individual. This blog article talks about some common reasons and why this is not a time for desperation, but rather an opportunity to prepare for love and focus on what you can do instead.
3 tips on how to make the most out of your
single time
What if one of the most valuable things is not waste hours on a dating app, but spend those hours investing in yourself? This can impact your next relationship tremendously.
1. 🌱YOURSELF
Become your own soulmate
2. 💔 YOUR PAST
Make peace with the past
3. ✨ YOUR FUTURE
Be more conscious in the future
When you jump to dating without knowing yourself and healing your past, you may well repeat the patterns from the past.
How I became my own soulmate
Sometimes you don't need to wait for love to arrive. That can be the very reason hindering your potential and your happiness. Date yourself and treat yourself like your own soulmate.
15-minute reflection
Grab a coffee. Put your phone away.
There are no right answers.
What makes you want a relationship right now?
What holds you back from enjoying yourself
right now despite being single, if you don't yet?
“I'm tired of dating apps, but I also don't want to just find another person. I want to understand myself better and build a better life.”
Step into your mission & live your purpose
Use your single life not to worry or search desperately - in desperation you rarely find any treasure. Instead, use your single life to become the best version of yourself and live your purpose.
Don't wait for love - date yourself.
10 ideas for solo dates
Haven't found your significant other? Desperate? Worry not. Get some self-love. Love doesn't find you when you're desperate, it often finds you the most when you're so fully engaged with life.
Use journalling for a quiet night or Saturday afternoon at home
to build the life you truly love
Journalling is a great way to chill on a quiet night or a Sunday afternoon. Become clear on what you want. Use the single time to become the best version of yourself. Picture a day in your dream life - with or without partner.
The biggest gift you can do yourself is not waste hours worrying and searching, but spend those hours investing in yourself. This can impact your next relationship tremendously.
Griefing a life you didn't have by now
Some of us grieve what they thought they had by now. Even the best of us get hit by a storm of grief. Sometimes it's not just about dreams, it's the grief what we thought we had by now, but life somehow turned out differently. Yet, there's a new strength and sense of self that can evolve from it.
How to prepare your inner world to finding genuine connection
Being single doesn't mean forever. If you're longing for a relationship, it can be a time to heal, to focus and become your own soulmate - because if you fully stand behind yourself you not only feel better, you become incredibly attractive. You're not up to lies, games and drama - you know who you are and what you want. That can be extremely attractive to the 'right' person that matches you.
Live intentionally,
understand yourself, and create meaningful relationships.
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The importance of releasing the shame.
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and the choice of becoming my own soulmate.
Better single than with the wrong guy.
What are your biggest no-gos, dating fails, or learning lessons from a first date?
The funy no-go: The ex-girlfriend
The man talking about his ex-girlfriend on a first date. By the end of the date, I started to miss his ex-girlfriend, too. But not him.
The failure: the 'no vibe' situation
You share that amazing vibe via text, already imagine yourself on holiday despite never having met but then in real life you have no vibe at all. Awkward.
Good bye compromises
He does things you don't like. You see more potential than consistency. He isn't entirely your type but you may compromise because better in a relationship than single. No. Just no.
I was single for a longer time. Why it wasn't a curse.
I was single for a longer time. Being single was not the main problem; the weird looks sometimes were. Until I realized years later that being single for a longer period of time allows you to get to know yourself. It's not a curse; it can be a blessing. When I was finally open to a relationship, I knew who I was and what I wanted, and I had to release old hurt and patterns. That built the foundation for a healthy relationship, not one drama after the next.
How your 'first love' can shape you and often leave subconscious prints
You think your old love is gone. It may be a memory to your conscious mind. But sometimes those connections we think we have forgotten or is over can still have imprints in the subconscious mind.
A-Z self-help: Get some instant answers
"It's one of those nights... and you can't help but feel completely depressed about being single."
Ever faced the situation? The emotions overcome you. It hits you like a wave. A mix of loneliness, depression and guilt if not regret. What can you do? Sit with it for a moment. Those emotions have its place. Grief for a moment. Don't run away. Those emotions can hint at deeper desires or old pain not to be ignored. Too often, we only want to be happy. But that's not reality, at least not when you're growing.
"A wave of regret hits me like bottom rocks."
Allow it. Sometimes it's old expectations. It's our own dream not being materialising.
"I'm too late"
Allow it. It's never too late. Some people start their passion at 65. Some people find their love at 17, others at 35 and others at 60. It's never too late. It's something society likes to tell us. There are other people out there who may feel exactly the same, so stop believing it and start believing you deserve love that's meant to find you.
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