The spiritual journey can sometimes feel lonely and dark

It’s not hard per se. But what makes it challenging is how many limitations in any shape or form often arise in your journey.

How many crossroads you come across, How often, just when you think you’ve figured something out, does a new portal, like a new door or sometimes a new dimension, open up, and it feels like you know nothing so far?

Yet, it all serves a greater purpose. I call it the game of life. Because in the end it’s a game. Even the state of ‘forgetfulness’ is a game. Even the state of ‘frustration’ is a game. And yet, it appears real. While you play chess, you could say it’s a game, but while you play, the game is real. So it is with life.

And so here are a couple of reasons why the spiritual journey often feels lonely.

In my perspective, souls choose to have an individualized experience to experience greater levels of who they are. They know they are one all together, but they experience the idea of separation to really know what oneness feels like. They choose an individualized experience to have different energy experiences to learn, remember, grow, and evolve. In other words, they embark on the game voluntarily, and they forget voluntarily. It’s part of their mission.

Now when we embark on a deep level of forgetfulness, there comes a time we shed layer for layer to erase that, which brings confusion. Not necessarily to the soul who knows how to navigate this, but to the human mind. It’s completely new. The mind has no idea what’s going on. And we often react with confusion, worry, and even fear. This is a normal process, but there comes a time when we’re so deeply frustrated we look out for help. Which is quite normal, and getting a spiritual mentor can help navigate the ups and downs. It can help the process of remembrance more and more.

However, sometimes we call out for help out of desperation. We may sometimes think no one out there gets us. And this is just a reminder that you’re always your own healer, teacher, and consoler. You came here with a mission. To forget and to remember again. You came here as an individualized soul that is so powerful it can transcend universes. Your own universe.

So never underestimate your own power. Never give your power away. Never think another one, even a master, is more powerful than you. Because they are not. And that’s what they kept teaching us. "What I can do, you can do and more," one of them was supposed to say.

So if you’re going through a phase that feels lonely and dark, remember it’s just your own distortions. You are always connected. Always held. Always one with all that is.

When you’re lonely, sometimes the best thing to do is ask your spirit guides and call for help. Those beings are there for you; they are with you in each moment. They can assist you in ways that sometimes an external mentor can’t help you. Not because mentors are bad. But we all go through our own individual journey, and this earth and human life can sometimes bring certain limitations and challenges for many of us. Not that the earth is limited, but most of us are all growing.

That’s what I do. I connect internally. That’s what I call 'intuition.' The benefit? There’s no jealousy, no comparison, no shame, and no challenge too big. They’re your biggest supporters. And best of all, their help is for free. Light beings don’t even expect money or a thank you.

Their guidance is so accurate that it blows your mind. Their love is so overwhelming that it purifies your heart. Their support is so almighty that it leaves your mind eventually calmed down. It’s nourishing. Nurturing. Loving.

These beings are just waiting for you to connect with them. They don’t intervene. Why? Because there’s free will. And they respect your free will.

Imagine we play chess. You play a character, and you feel miserable. Your mother or sister wouldn’t intervene in the game unless you asked her. Then she can have a look and go like, “Turn right.” Not from a place of desperation or that you can make mistakes. But as a recommendation on how to navigate this game with more ease. Someone with a broad perspective can see things with more objectivity.

And that’s what you can do too when you feel lonely and dark. See your life like a game. With more objectivity. Observe your character called human. And then choose anew how you wish to continue. With fear or with love? With shame or with confidence? With gratitude or with hate?

That’s a choice no one can take away from you. Because you play. Not because you have to but because you choose to.

And if some days feel dark and frustrating, it can be part of human life. Because let’s be honest. Imagine we all had it figured out in a game after one round; what would be the sense of playing? It would be boring. So your limitations keep up the game in a way. And when you’re tired, you can give up further limitations. Step by step. Then it will feel more like someone taking off the eye blinders.

You wake up more and more to your true nature that you are: an unlimited divine being in a temporary human experience. That’s what I want to help people with. Not tell them what to do, but help them reconnect with themselves, with their own intuition, remember a bit deeper what this life is all about, and activate your own self-healing or teaching powers.